FetLife is the world’s largest and most popular social network for the BDSM community, Kink community, and Fetish community.

FetLife is a social networking website that serves people interested in BDSM, fetishism, and kink. It distinguishes itself from competitors by emphasizing itself as a social network rather than a dating site.

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Fetlife is good for finding local events, and maybe discussing kink related topics (your mileage may vary). But I wouldn't use it as a dating app (though it's clear that's not the intended function).

Jun 25, 2021 · Founded in 2008, FetLife.com and the FetLife app have now been serving the kink community for over 15 years. It describes itself as a social network site – rather than one aimed at …

FetLife gives an alternative to dating for Kinksters, where people can search for potential play partners or dates based on sexual compatibility instead of swiping right. What is FetLife? FetLife is a social …

Aug 2, 2025 · FetLife is a social networking website designed for people interested in BDSM, kink, and fetish lifestyles. Unlike traditional dating platforms, FetLife is more like a community where people …

Feb 28, 2025 · FetLife is a social networking site tailored for people interested in BDSM, fetishism, and kink communities. Think of it as Facebook for kinksters, but with more privacy and freedom.