When I went through a break up in my early 20s, I didn’t listen to a single one of these guidelines. To get over my exes, I’d rush into new relationships (way too quickly), go out (way too often), sh*t talk the guy, ignore my feelings, take them out on other people… you name it. I didn’t know that even though healing from heartbreak in HEALTHY ways was harder to do AT FIRST, it was so much better for me in the long run. I KNOW firsthand how challenging it is to not immediately jump on a dating a