The unfortunate reality of most chronic pain sufferers is facing unfair judgment - that we have acquired this illness from something we have done (a common Christian community plight), or that we are simply choosing to remain in a state of chaos to either play victim or to get others to do our work for us. The reality of this type of toxic behavior is that people with chronic pain often suffer silently. While sometimes chronic illness does dispose people to a learned helplessness mindset, even i